#3 Porridge. Every morning and as many times during the day as socially acceptable.
1 part oats / 2 parts cold water (or milk if you are rich) / sprinkle of cinnamon / wadge of butter / bring to the boil / stir (with wrong end of wooden spoon, not sure why I learnt this way) until thick.
His = brown sugar, butter, milk // Hers = spiced stewed apples, honey, milk.
*edit - I use that end of the spoon because my family are Scottish and a Scottish friend just pointed out that in Scotland they use a spurtle to stir porridge, so I guess that makes sense.